
“And those who disbelieve in the Ayât (proofs, evidences, verses, lessons, signs, revelations, etc.) of Allâh and the Meeting with Him, it is they who have no hope in My Mercy, and it is they who will (have) a painful torment. “
Despair: –noun
1. loss of hope; hopelessness.
2. someone or something that causes hopelessness: He is the despair of his mother.
–verb (used without object)
3. to lose, give up, or be without hope (often fol. by of): to despair of humanity.
Despair is the hopeless feeling that overcomes people, when they face trials and hardships. Why is it a Sin? Why did I place such a great emphasis on “one of the greatest sins”:
[012:087] “Oh my sons! Go look for Yusuf and his brother. Do not give up hope. Have faith in the mercy of Allah. Surely, only the disbelievers lose hope in the mercy of Allah!”
Despair in itself is not good for ones physical health, depression is a form of despair. But it is also a destruction in the case of someone spiritual health.
there is a Story in the Quran of Abraham, when the Angels come to him before destroying Sodom and Gomorrah, they bring glad tiding to a aging Abraham:
51. And tell them about the guests (the angels) of Ibrâhim (Abraham).
52. When they entered unto him, and said: Salâman (peace)! [Ibrâhim (Abraham)] said: “Indeed! We are afraid of you.”
53. They (the angels) said: “Do not be afraid! We give you glad tidings of a boy (son) possessing much knowledge and wisdom.”
54. [Ibrâhim (Abraham)] said: “Do you give me glad tidings (of a son) when old age has overtaken me? Of what then is your news?”
55. They (the angels) said: “We give you glad tidings in truth. SO BE NOT OF THE DESPAIRING ONES.”
56. [Ibrâhim (Abraham)] said: “AND WHO DESPAIRS OF THE MERCY OF GOD EXCEPT THOSE WHO ARE ASTRAY?”
Before these verse, God says something that perhaps can open our eyes to a important point:
49. Declare (O Muhammad SAW) unto My servants, that truly, I am the Oft-Forgiving, the Most-Merciful
God is most merciful. GOD IS MOST MERCIFUL. DECLARE TO MY SERVANTS THAT TRULY, I AM MOST FORGIVING MOST MERCIFUL!
Have you ever felt sad? like the world is a bad place, that things are becoming too difficult, as if its a never ending hardship? you are WRONG:
5. So verily, with the hardship, there is relief,
6. Verily, with the hardship, there is relief (i.e. there is one hardship with two reliefs, so one hardship cannot overcome two reliefs).
These verses were revealed to the Prophet Muhammad pbuh when he was experiencing great hardships and difficulty.
Did you ever feel like God has abandoned you? He has not ABANDONED YOU. Rather you have no patience, have you ever blamed God for any problem you faced, you are wrong! God is not to blame.
Have you felt as if you’ve done great evil, and God will NEVER FORGIVE YOU?
God says:
“Say: O my Servants who have transgressed against their souls! Despair not of the Mercy of Allah: for Allah forgives all sins: for He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.” [Sûrah al-Zumar: 53]
the Devil tries to overcome you with DESPAIR and SADNESS, knowing that the deeper he afflictes you with Despair and sadness you will not reach out to God.
Rather you will reach out to other things to escape from the Hardship you are in. Among them, Murder, Suicide and Drugs.
Do you know the name of the Devil in Arabic?
IBLIS which comes from the Semetic root, BALASA which in Arabic means,” DESPAIR”. He wants to cause others the same DESPAIR he is in.
the Devil declared in a interesting narration:
I have defeated the Children of Adam when I cause them to Sin, but he then “cried” and said, but they have DEFEATED me whenever they call upon their LORD, because whenever they call upon HIM he forgives them, he is MOST FORGIVING MOST MERCIFUL!”
one way he tries to stop Man from reaching out to his LORD who is always there for him:
186. And when My servants ask you (O Muhammad SAW) concerning Me, then (answer them), I am indeed near (to them by My Knowledge). I respond to the invocations of the caller when he calls on Me (without any mediator or intercessor). So let them obey Me and believe in Me, so that they may be led aright
the Devil makes Mankind feel unclean and impure and unable to approach God so they use others to approach him, INTERCESSORS, LESSER GODS and GODDESSES ETC.
but Beware. that Is how the Devil delays or even leads people astray.
so do not be SAD, or DESPAIR.
God is MOST FORGIVING MOST MERCIFUL
‘O son of Adam, so long as you call upon Me, and hope in Me, I will forgive you for all that comes from you, and I do not care. O son of Adam, if your sins were to reach even the farthest heights (clouds) in the sky, and you asked for My forgiveness, I shall forgive you. O son of Adam, were you to come to Me with an earthful of sins and met Me without having associated anything with Me, I shall grant you an earthful of pardon”.
